Emotional polarization is a process in which two people (or groups of people) will begin to increasingly organize around a difference (or set of differences). You see it all levels of human interaction, but it's more likely in the context of emotion-laden beliefs. It's a big concept in the world of therapy and is very prevalent in political and religious circles. It's a "catch 22" phenomenon. The one moves toward increased polarity in an effort to change the other. However, the polarity of the one only serves to motivate increased polarity in the other. Ultimately, both become trapped in rigid positions with which they are not completely comfortable. The only escape is one has to give-up the idea that he can control the other and cease making that effort a priority in his agenda. Years and years ago, our congregation was actually born out such a process. Thankfully, throughout our development, we have never suffered such again.
I have often wondered why Sunshine has grown when some other congregations have struggled (Scioto County area). I attribute it to the establishment of an eldership. To my knowledge, our sister congregations were not able to establish or at least maintain an eldership. I don't say that to be critical of other congregations- it is an extremely difficult task (i.e. establishment of an eldership where one doesn't exist). Our eldership has been instrumental in providing a focus for future growth and maintaining a context of stability. That's not to discount wonderful efforts made by others but the eldership is the structural buffer against emotional polarization.
We, as members, have a lot for which to be thankful. I suppose we all have our gripes and complaints, but the blessing are far surpassing. I make it a point to pray for our elders everyday. I know God can work powerfully through the weakest of us, but there is a special work that pertains to the elders.
Now for some humor...check this out
Tuesday, November 08, 2005
Polarization
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Jason,
I had a long and difficult day, one of those days where every patient was a challenge. My brain actually hurts. I've paid my bills and thought I would enjoy reading blogs from my fellow Sunshiners (is this an appropiate name for us), then I read your blog. I actually had to reread it three times, maybe it is late or maybe you are to smart, but here goes my retort.
I agree with your assesment, it is very impressive that the interest of some has not offset the interest of others. And I agree that it appears that it is the stability of the eldership that has solidified the Sunshine congregation. I also try to pray for the elders and all leadership in the church. Because even though the eldership is stable, they are still men and only with God's guidance can we continue to thrive.
PS Who are those people in your link, and where do you get those shoes?
You are absolutely correct about elders being men just like the rest of us, I suppose therein lies the importance of praying.
About the link, I don't know anything about the guy who wrote or the Emergent Movement. It was written as a parody of the typical manner in which some christians criticize the views of others they perceive as too liberal or progressive. As a parody, I thought it was hilarious.
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